Surfacing Leaders
Surfacing Leaders

The Pentagon, Pressure, and the Human Side of Leadership with DeDe Halfhill

22 May 2026 1:00:31 Marc Koehler

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About this episode

In this episode of the Surfacing Leaders podcast, host Marc Koehler sits down with DeDe Halfhill for a powerful conversation about leadership, vulnerability, and the emotional dynamics that shape performance under pressure. Drawing from her 25-year career in the United States Air Force, including leadership roles in Iraq, the Pentagon, and as senior communication advisor to the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs, DeDe shares why the strongest leaders are not the ones who hide fear, but the ones who know how to navigate it.

Throughout the conversation, DeDe explores how emotions like fear, uncertainty, and isolation quietly influence decision-making, trust, and team culture. She discusses the importance of emotional fluency in leadership and explains why many organizations struggle because leaders have never been taught how to address the human side of performance. Marc and DeDe also dive into the growing impact of AI and rapid change, emphasizing that as technology advances, leaders must become even more skilled at understanding the emotional undercurrents inside their organizations.

Listeners will walk away with valuable insights on how to lead with more humanity without sacrificing accountability or authority. DeDe also shares practical lessons on building trust, navigating difficult conversations, and helping teams stay connected during uncertainty and change.

The episode concludes with actionable advice for leaders:

  • Acknowledge fear instead of pretending it does not exist.
  • Build trust through honest conversations.
  • Give yourself grace as you grow and lead.

Join us for this thought-provoking episode exploring what it truly means to lead people through pressure, uncertainty, and transformation.

Guest Links:
Instagram: @dedehalfhill
LinkedIn: DeDe Halfhill LinkedIn
Website: DeDe Halfhill Official Website

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