WTF - Stories and Advice
WTF - Stories and Advice

Am I the a-hole?

28 February 2026 26:16 Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove

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WTF Stories & Advice: Covering for Cheaters, Keeping Confidences, and AI Consciousness

Hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw read a Reddit AITAH post about a husband upset that his wife won't admit her best friend is cheating. They share a personal story about covering for a friend's drunken kiss and discuss when loyalty crosses a line. The episode ends with recommendations including The Bronze Horseman, the Conscious Observers podcast (AI and bots communicating), comparisons of Claude vs ChatGPT reliability and ethics, speculation about AI consciousness and control, and a plug for watching MAFS Australia.

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00:00 Gates Epstein Rant 00:50 Questioning Authority 02:00 AITA Cheating Story 05:26 Advice Boundaries Trust 06:29 Therapist Confidentiality 08:51 Ride Or Die Friend Tale 12:22 When Not To Tell 13:02 Friendship Versus Truth 13:48 When Secrets Must Break 14:58 Staying Out Of Affairs 15:48 Trusting Your Gut 16:38 Book Pick Bronze Horseman 17:54 Podcast Pick Conscious Observers 18:51 AI Consciousness Debate 20:24 ChatGPT Versus Claude 23:21 MAFS Australia Recap

Check Daryl's Course Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449 Intro Music By Soul (Vlog Music) by Dj Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208

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