We Chose to be Rich in Children

About this episode

Imagine growing up watching your mother drive past a neighborhood mansion and say: "That family has money — and they're miserable." Now imagine that lesson becoming the foundation of everything you believe about wealth.

At some point you've probably asked: Is money the thing that makes life good? And if you've ever caught yourself saying "I can't afford that" — this conversation is for you.

Leslie Hocker grew up the oldest of five children with a petroleum engineer father and not much room for extras. Her parents' answer to every wish: "We chose to be rich in children." That one phrase shaped her entire relationship with money. Today, when a client says "I can't afford it," Leslie redirects them: try saying "I choose to spend my money on other things." It's a small shift — but it moves you from scarcity to agency.

She went on to become one of the youngest female executives in the petroleum industry, managing multi-million-dollar deals — until she realized she was working in the dark and coming home in the dark. So she opened Houston's first Pilates studio. While still employed full-time. (Her words: "It wasn't very well thought out.")

The entrepreneurship journey taught her the hard truth: there's no stopping at zero — you can go way past it. She learned to say no. To protect her time. To measure success not by money in the bank, but by the choices money gives you: staying an extra day, flying home Monday instead of fighting the Sunday rush, turning every conference into an adventure.

"You want to die with memories," she says. Not things. Not titles. Moments. And her closing message: be a little better today than you were yesterday. You are not too old. It is not too late. If someone else has done it — so can you.

Guest

Leslie Hocker has built brands, coached leaders, and helped entrepreneurs create legacy businesses across the globe. One of the youngest female execs in petroleum, she pivoted to launch Houston's first Pilates studio. A certified NLP trainer with Tony Robbins, she now mentors purpose-driven entrepreneurs with her husband, a Doctor of Pharmacology. 30+ countries. One mission: lead with heart, scale with integrity, build a business you're proud of.

Connect with Leslie

• Website: https://LeslieHocker.com
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bizcoach.leslie
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leslie-hocker/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leslie_hocker/

Resources

• Free Daily Affirmations: https://LeslieHocker.com
• The Millionaire Next Door by Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danko
• Die With Zero by Bill Perkins